INFINITY News: A neurosurgeon finds hope in despair. What is his mental attitude after the diagnosis changed his life? #Neurosurgery #Mental care #Self-improvement
Video explanation
Introduction: What if your doctor told you that you have a serious illness?
Hello, my name is John. Health is the most important thing for everyone. But what if a doctor told you something serious like, "You have an incurable disease" or "It could be life-threatening"? Just imagining it makes my heart ache.
This time, we will be thinking about what we can do, based on the talk of a neurosurgeon (a doctor who specializes in treating brain and nerve disorders) about how important it is to have a positive attitude, even in difficult situations. You may be thinking, "What, that's such a serious topic...?", but in fact, this talk also provides some hints for living your daily life in a positive way.
A neurosurgeon's view of "life" and "heart"
Neurosurgeons deal with patients on the brink of death every day. There are times when they have to tell the patient and their family the harsh reality. Their role is to announce a fatal diagnosis, such as "there is no more treatment available" or "you only have a limited amount of time left."
At times like these, patients and their families are overcome with a variety of emotions, including sadness, anger, anxiety, and despair. That is only natural. However, as he has seen many patients, he has noticed that even in similarly severe situations, the way people spend their time afterward and their mental state vary greatly from person to person.
Can your mindset change your future?
What is important here is what the teacher calls "Outlook," in other words, "your attitude" or "how you perceive things."
Of course, your mindset alone won't cure your illness. It's not magic. But,Your attitude will greatly affect the "quality" of the time you have left.There is something that happened.
For example ...
- Mr. A despairs, thinking "It's no use," and becomes depressed every day.
- Mr. B says, "I want to cherish the time I have left and do what I want to do," so he goes on trips with his family and immerses himself in his hobbies.
Even if both people have the same "limited time," don't you think that the satisfaction and peace of mind that person A and person B experience each day are completely different?
The professor also points out that a positive attitude may have a positive effect on the body's immune system (the ability to protect the body from illness).Having hope and focusing on the small joys of everyday life can be a great help in overcoming difficult treatments and tough situations.Apparently he saw it.
This is nothing special. In your everyday life, when you see a glass half full of water, your mood changes depending on whether you think "It's only half full" or "There's still half left." It may be similar to that.
What can we do to face this harsh reality?
So, what should you do if you or a loved one finds yourself in this situation? Here are some hints from a neurosurgeon's perspective.
- Have small goals:Finding small daily joys and goals, such as "The weather is nice today, so let's go for a walk" or "Let's eat something delicious," will give you the strength to live.
- Focus on what you can control:Although it is difficult to control the illness itself, you can choose how you spend your time, what you spend your time on, and who you talk to.
- Express your feelings honestly:There's no need to suppress feelings of sadness, pain, or fear. It's a good idea to talk to someone you trust or write about them in a journal.
- Be grateful:Don't forget to be grateful to your family, friends, medical staff, and those who support you. Gratitude warms the heart.
- Live in the present:Instead of being caught up in worries about the future or regrets about the past, it's important to cherish and enjoy "this moment right now." This is surprisingly difficult, but very important.
The doctor says, "A diagnosis is not everything." A diagnosis is merely a snapshot of the current situation. How one lives from that point on may depend in large part on the individual's "attitude" and the support they receive from those around them.
A word from John
This talk was a deep insight into the "life" and "mind" that neurosurgeons deal with every day. Even if you are healthy, anyone can feel depressed or anxious about the future on a daily basis. At times like these, if we can remember the importance of this "attitude," we may be able to become a little more positive. I once again felt that no matter what the situation, we should cherish the "now" in our own way.
This article is based on the following original articles and is summarized from the author's perspective:
I'm A Neurosurgeon Who Gives Fatal Diagnoses — How Outlook
Changes Everything